Am I wrong that I really dislike my husband's 35 yr old, w/3 children and don't watn to work daughter?

For both of us, it is our 3rd marriage. He has 3 adult children and I have 2. His daughter is the issue. She never comes around or invites him/us to the childrens bd parties, graduation or brings the children around. She only calls him when she wants money or wants him to do something. recently, she had a party to sell some nice products. She did not invite us, but she sent a book home by her father and told him to give it to me to buy something out of it. We talked on the phone and I told her, when she has a party that she can invite us to, we will be happy to come and purchase. She doesn't call her father but, for this she hounded him to buy from the catalog dispite what was already discussed. I feel that I am in the way.